Men,cake and dot dot dot

In general, let's see the whole male population as a cake. Out of that full cake, cut out half of it, to represent those married ones...

Let's work within the half that is left...assuming that this half represents singles, we must cut out those who are already engaged. Making the portion even smaller...

Out of this smaller portion, cut out those who has already a gf..which will then make the portion even smaller

So what's left now is a small portion of the claimed to be singles out there..However,out of this small, sought after portion...the stake got even higher when...

We ladies have to minus those who are not straight, respecting the gender orientation. Also, we have to minus those partially straight.. The ones that are still confuse with their own orientation.

So now, we're left with the straight so-called single guys. What's the next problem? Hehe.Out of this rare species left...

We must put into account that within those who are single...there are still people that without them knowing that they CHOOSE to be single because they still could not get over their lost love (if it's a lost of life, it can still be tolerable,but usually it's always a bad regret of a breakup) , they are still hoping for a lady of their dreams which in typical cases had choose to move on long time ago, or in some cases, nobody seems to be good enough for them because they somehow had put their own checklist criteria of my-perfect-lady.

Gentlemen.. to begin with, there's no such thing as perfect. A partner is needed to complement us...to complement our weaknesses, so together we will be stronger. That's how we will be needing each other. A little note for those who belong in that category; open your eyes, open your heart, open your mind, may God show you that there is someone out there that really meant for you.

Now that the cake gets smaller, there's a small portion of it that we have to remove. Those guys who just never think about future; let alone life together. Personally, man are made to lead. Thus, must able to plan and think.

Now here comes the bite size left...those are genuinely ready with their hearts wide open to get to know someone, to look for a life partner...why it's bite size? Coz I don't see there's much left.

You can never know a person, if you don't get to know them...That's the number 1 rule, get to a know a person. Know the person, then decide whether you like it or not, if you like it, proceed for the next steps, if you don't, then it's ok, No harm.

After all being said, there is one reason why illustrate them as a cake. From outside,from my point of view, they are all the same, they are guys. You will never know it comes from which part of portion of the cake he belongs to until you take it to your plate.

Ironically, to find that very rare and scarce bite size is not an easy task either..have faith, and believe that you will get yours truly. Until then, the quest continues~and you don't have to force yourself to have what's on your plate either ;)

When one door shuts, another door opens. It may be not another person just yet, but it may be the door to freedom, to a wiser you or a door of opportunity to improve yourself to be even a better person that you never thought you'd be. This, applies to all the wonderful man and woman out there.

If only journey of life is just a piece of cake.

As we continue our quest to look for our other half...I constantly remind myself and would wish to remind you too that marriage is a gamble, with your life at stake. You will never know what happens next.

For those who is in full effort searching...no pain,no gain. But always remember, the right one will also finds its way :)

For those who found your other half,your efforts to maintain it should not stop.

Good luck to everyone~May all of us blessed with lots of love,joy and happiness :)

xoxo,
eyem3.

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Salam...

I should say, I was inspired by a blogger friend of mine whom I saw updating his blog just via BB. Not that I never did before, it is just that I seldom really jot down my thoughts on my BB. Thus, I decided that maybe it is about time I try to write, using BB. It's cool anyway, you can write while you are in bed,watching tv or in toilet! Haha

What came across my mind this morning is a little conversation I had with my bestie..we were talking about guys and where have they gone to. You may or may not agree with me..but this is somehow how I see the current surroundings....

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